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How To Build a Spiritual Dating Relationship
by Jeremy Walden

I never really thought about the connection between dating and spirituality when I was younger - except don't have sex because God said so.

It wasn't until my mid-twenty's that I wondered how another person could help me connect with God. How could I help another person connect with God?

Hopefully without sounding oversimplistic, here are four simple ways to build a spiritual relationship:

First, spend time together talking and listening to God. There is nothing like praying with the person you are dating. It takes the relationship to a completely different level.

Second, spend time alone with God. It is possible for you to want to spend all your time together. However, it is most often when you are alone that God tells you His secrets. God wants YOU. He wants to show and tell you things. He wants to spend time alone with you even more than you want to spend time alone with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Third, give God control. Your Jesus-relationship has to change and influence every slice of your life. When that happens— who you date, how you treat each other, where you go, and what you do together will change. It is called lordship. Fourth, serve God together. Volunteer together to help the elderly, the hungry, or those in prison.

I had a tendency when dating to push God out of the way. I needed to keep Him central to everything I do. I realized that I was not just trying to maintain this dating relationship. I also needed to maintain my relationship with God and help my partner maintain her relationship with God.

- Jeremy Walden is the husband of Jara, father of Micah, and co-author of Dating Q & A. He owns Next Gen Publishing and is trying to finish his Master's degree at Auburn University.

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hanif



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Dating Articles for Christians. Dating Advice.: 7
Comments: 1
 Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2005 6:32 am  Post subject: We Can Develop Relation With Poor by Suporting Small Ministries

Dear Sir/Madam,


Christ Voice Ministry-CVM is a small ministry working in Pakistan to give the good new of God to all nations. We are small group we are trying to bring people to our Lord Jesus to save their lives.

we are sending you our information please visit our site ( www.cvmpak.netfirms.com ) & send your information.

Good News for our friends

Recently we have stared a Bible course of six week, 10 boys and 6 girls are participating in it.
Subjects
1 Scriptures
2 Bible theology
3 Sermon preparation
4 History
5 Music
6 A touch of local sociology
For the purpose we are extremely need of your support please send us your donations
You donations would be

Title of Account Hanif Masih
Acount # 17094-3
Bank Name Habib Bank Limited (HBL)
Branch PMC (Punjab Medical Collage) Faisalabad
Country Pakistan

We are going to organized a Crusade on 16th of April 2005 we invite all interested Person to come and Join us through their Service and Donation
Hope for your good response

Director CVM
Rev: Hanif Masih

St # 1 House P-53
Galilabad Milat Road
Po coad 38700
Faisalabad Pakistan
Hanif_masih@hotmail.com

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